The 21st Century Church and Sex – Closing the Door on Perversion
The modern church faces many challenges, and one of the most pressing is addressing the topic of sex and perversion in a way that brings healing and restoration. Too often, this topic is avoided or only touched upon superficially. However, as followers of Christ, we are called to confront the root causes of these issues and offer God’s transformative power as the solution.
Why This Discussion Matters
Sexual sin and brokenness are realities affecting people within and outside the church. From struggles with identity to the impact of sexual trauma, the pain is real, and the consequences are far-reaching. Revelations 12:11 reminds us:
“They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.”
Sharing our struggles and victories is essential to breaking cycles of sin and bringing healing. When we address these issues openly and honestly, we open the door to transformation.
Understanding the Roots of Perversion
The enemy often uses past wounds, such as molestation, sexual trauma, or exposure to inappropriate content, to sow seeds of perversion. These violations create toxic manifestations, including rebellion, confusion, and self-hatred.
However, God is not focused on condemning the symptoms—He is concerned with healing the roots. By addressing the pain and lies that take root in a person’s heart, God offers deliverance and restoration.
Closing the Door on Perversion
- Acknowledging the Open Door:
Many people carry wounds they never asked for, but healing begins with recognizing the areas where the enemy has gained access. Whether through personal choices or circumstances beyond one’s control, identifying these doors is the first step toward freedom. - Choosing to Say No:
Closing the door requires intentionality. It’s a decision to refuse the enemy’s attempts to pull us into cycles of sin. Saying no to perversion, even when tempted, is an act of surrender to God’s will. - Relying on God’s Strength:
On our own, overcoming deeply ingrained struggles is impossible. But with God, all things are possible. Through the Holy Spirit, we are empowered to resist temptation and walk in purity.
A Call to Compassion
As a church, we must approach this topic with love and understanding, not judgment. Many people struggling with sexual sin or identity crises have been deeply hurt. Condemnation only pushes them further away. Instead, we are called to offer:
- Understanding: Listening to their stories without judgment.
- Support: Providing resources, accountability, and prayer.
- Hope: Reminding them that God’s grace is greater than their struggles.
The Role of Testimony
Sharing personal testimonies of how God has delivered us from sexual sin or trauma is a powerful tool for ministry. It not only glorifies God but also encourages others to seek healing and freedom.
Final Thoughts
The 21st-century church cannot afford to remain silent about sex and perversion. By addressing these issues with honesty and compassion, we create an environment where healing and transformation are possible.
God is still in the business of restoring broken lives. Through His love, we can close the door on perversion and walk in the freedom He offers. Let us commit to being a church that speaks truth, extends grace, and points people toward the hope found in Christ.
Dr. Sandra Callier
